Blog & Resources
Gentle, practical insights on child counselling, play therapy, neurodiversity, parenting, and motherhood, written by Sheila Aini, MC, RCC.

Meet Sheila Aini, MC, RCC and explore Sunny Spot, a warm counselling space for children, teens, parents and families in Port Coquitlam.

Learn how to respond when your teen says I am fine, with a low pressure script that protects privacy, dignity and connection.

A compassionate repair script for parents after raising their voice, with practical steps for responsibility, reconnection and trying again.

A gentle four step response for repeated reassurance seeking that supports your child without promising impossible certainty.

A gentle guide for an overstimulated parent or caregiver, with a clear two minute pause script that protects connection.

A practical listening script for parents who want to support a teen without rushing into advice, questions or solutions.

Counselling can begin before a breaking point. Learn what early support can look like for mothers and caregivers carrying too much.

ADHD can make starting, organizing and finishing tasks difficult for teens. Learn how executive functioning affects school, emotions and family life.

August 9, 2026
A Sunday reset should reduce pressure, not create more of it. Try a simple family routine that makes room for preparation, connection, and rest.

August 8, 2026
Sibling conflict is stressful for the whole family. Learn a calmer repair process that focuses on safety, understanding, responsibility, and reconnection.

August 7, 2026
I don't know can mean many things. Learn how to lower the pressure and help children communicate through choices, body clues, play, drawing, and time.

Progress is not always dramatic or perfectly steady. Learn about the small, meaningful changes families may begin noticing during child counselling.

August 5, 2026
Connection does not require a perfect activity or an empty calendar. Discover small ways to help your child feel seen during a busy family day.

August 4, 2026
Sensory breaks do not have to be complicated. Learn how movement, quiet, texture, creativity, and reduced demands can help an overwhelmed child reset.

August 3, 2026
A calming space can give children a gentle place to pause, regulate, and reconnect. Here is how mothers can create one without turning it into another demand.

August 2, 2026
Busy family schedules should not make support impossible. Learn how evening and Sunday counselling options can make it easier to find a time that works.

August 2, 2026
Children do not always have words for their emotions. Playful tools can help them notice feelings, communicate safely, and build emotional awareness.

July 21, 2026
Wondering whether your child could use extra support? Learn the difference between one hard day and a lasting pattern, the signs worth watching, and how to take a gentle first step.

July 21, 2026
Curious what to expect when your child starts counselling? A warm, step-by-step look at intake, preparing your child, the playroom, privacy, and how progress may unfold.

Play therapy and behaviour intervention are often framed as opposites, but they answer different questions. Here is a respectful, jargon-free look at both — and how they can work together.

Meltdowns are not misbehaviour — they are a nervous system asking for help. Learn why co-regulation comes before self-regulation, what to do in the moment, and how to reconnect afterward.

July 18, 2026
Some children hold everything together all day and release it at home. Learn how to respond with connection, lower demands, and support for regulation.

July 18, 2026
Children rarely arrive at counselling ready to explain everything. Learn why trust, play, creativity, and connection create the foundation for meaningful therapy.

Play is the natural language of children. Learn how play therapy helps children in the Tri-Cities process emotions, build coping skills, and heal from difficult experiences.

Childhood anxiety is common, but it can feel overwhelming for the whole family. Discover gentle, evidence-based strategies to help your child manage worry and fear.

Neurodiversity-affirming care celebrates autistic and ADHD children as they are. Learn about this strengths-based approach and how it supports authentic growth.

Tantrums, meltdowns, and big emotions are a normal part of development. Learn how to help your child build emotional regulation skills at home.

The teenage years bring unique pressures. Understand the signs your teen may benefit from counselling and how to start the conversation with care.

The mental load, exhaustion, and mom guilt can leave mothers running on empty. Learn how counselling for mothers helps you reconnect with yourself.
