Blog & Resources

Gentle, practical insights on child counselling, play therapy, neurodiversity, parenting, and motherhood, written by Sheila Aini, MC, RCC.

Warm child and family counselling room at Sunny Spot in Port Coquitlam with play, art and sensory materials.
Meet Sheila Aini, MC, RCC and explore Sunny Spot, a warm counselling space for children, teens, parents and families in Port Coquitlam.
A quiet, supportive space where a teen can take time before talking, with soft seating and calm natural light.
Learn how to respond when your teen says I am fine, with a low pressure script that protects privacy, dignity and connection.
A parent and child reconnecting gently after a hard moment in a warm counselling room.
A compassionate repair script for parents after raising their voice, with practical steps for responsibility, reconnection and trying again.
A child and caregiver sitting together, working through repeated worry with a calm, grounded presence.
A gentle four step response for repeated reassurance seeking that supports your child without promising impossible certainty.
A caregiver taking a brief, quiet pause in a calm corner while the family settles nearby.
A gentle guide for an overstimulated parent or caregiver, with a clear two minute pause script that protects connection.
A parent listening beside a teen during an open, unhurried conversation at home.
A practical listening script for parents who want to support a teen without rushing into advice, questions or solutions.
A mother resting quietly with a cup of tea, making space for her own experience.
Counselling can begin before a breaking point. Learn what early support can look like for mothers and caregivers carrying too much.
ADHD in Teens: When “Lazy” May Actually Be Executive Functioning Difficulty
ADHD can make starting, organizing and finishing tasks difficult for teens. Learn how executive functioning affects school, emotions and family life.
A Gentle Sunday Reset for Busy Families
A Sunday reset should reduce pressure, not create more of it. Try a simple family routine that makes room for preparation, connection, and rest.
Helping Siblings Repair After Conflict
Sibling conflict is stressful for the whole family. Learn a calmer repair process that focuses on safety, understanding, responsibility, and reconnection.
When Your Child Says I Don't Know
I don't know can mean many things. Learn how to lower the pressure and help children communicate through choices, body clues, play, drawing, and time.
What Progress in Child Counselling Can Actually Look Like
Progress is not always dramatic or perfectly steady. Learn about the small, meaningful changes families may begin noticing during child counselling.
Ten Minutes of Connection Can Matter
Connection does not require a perfect activity or an empty calendar. Discover small ways to help your child feel seen during a busy family day.
What a Sensory Break Can Look Like
Sensory breaks do not have to be complicated. Learn how movement, quiet, texture, creativity, and reduced demands can help an overwhelmed child reset.
A Calm Corner Is Not a Punishment
A calming space can give children a gentle place to pause, regulate, and reconnect. Here is how mothers can create one without turning it into another demand.
Counselling That Fits Into Real Family Life
Busy family schedules should not make support impossible. Learn how evening and Sunday counselling options can make it easier to find a time that works.
Big Feelings Need a Soft Place to Land
Children do not always have words for their emotions. Playful tools can help them notice feelings, communicate safely, and build emotional awareness.
How Do I Know if My Child Needs Counselling?
Wondering whether your child could use extra support? Learn the difference between one hard day and a lasting pattern, the signs worth watching, and how to take a gentle first step.
What Happens in a Child's First Counselling Session?
Curious what to expect when your child starts counselling? A warm, step-by-step look at intake, preparing your child, the playroom, privacy, and how progress may unfold.
Play Therapy vs. Behaviour Intervention: What Is the Difference?
Play therapy and behaviour intervention are often framed as opposites, but they answer different questions. Here is a respectful, jargon-free look at both — and how they can work together.
Helping Children With Big Feelings, Meltdowns and Emotional Regulation
Meltdowns are not misbehaviour — they are a nervous system asking for help. Learn why co-regulation comes before self-regulation, what to do in the moment, and how to reconnect afterward.
When Big Feelings Come Home
Some children hold everything together all day and release it at home. Learn how to respond with connection, lower demands, and support for regulation.
Why Children Connect Differently
Children rarely arrive at counselling ready to explain everything. Learn why trust, play, creativity, and connection create the foundation for meaningful therapy.
Understanding Play Therapy: How Children Heal Through Play
Play is the natural language of children. Learn how play therapy helps children in the Tri-Cities process emotions, build coping skills, and heal from difficult experiences.
Supporting Your Anxious Child: Practical Strategies for Parents
Childhood anxiety is common, but it can feel overwhelming for the whole family. Discover gentle, evidence-based strategies to help your child manage worry and fear.
What Is Neurodiversity-Affirming Care and Why Does It Matter?
Neurodiversity-affirming care celebrates autistic and ADHD children as they are. Learn about this strengths-based approach and how it supports authentic growth.
Managing Big Feelings: Emotional Regulation for Young Children
Tantrums, meltdowns, and big emotions are a normal part of development. Learn how to help your child build emotional regulation skills at home.
Teen Mental Health: When to Seek Counselling for Your Adolescent
The teenage years bring unique pressures. Understand the signs your teen may benefit from counselling and how to start the conversation with care.
Motherhood Burnout Is Real: Compassionate Support for Mothers
The mental load, exhaustion, and mom guilt can leave mothers running on empty. Learn how counselling for mothers helps you reconnect with yourself.